There comes a time in every woman's life when she has to take a close look at herself. Not at her circumstances, not at what he did, not how unfair life is, not who made you do it, just at herself in
all her glory and imperfection. For many women this is a scary thing because often times they don't want to know the truth about themselves. Real women can relate to this.
As women, we have a tendency to water one another down. Maybe it makes us feel good or look better than the next woman. Or maybe we just don't know how to tell that woman how we admire her. Have you ever admired a woman who has been through changes in her life? Or have you made up in your mind that she is just messed up. Before you make this mistake, take a closer look.
A woman who has endured the most unusual life is someone of wisdom. Someone who has been chosen by God to go through. Think of all the great women in the bible, Mary Magdalene and Esther to name a few. Mary was a prostitute. A very uneasy woman. But by the time God was done with her, she was his closest follower. Esther was unfortunate in marrying an abusive man. By the time God was done with her she married one of the wealthiest men in the land.
Have you ever admired the strength of a single mother? Or have you made up your mind that it's too bad she had children on her own. A single mother knows no bounds when it comes to her children. She is strong and durable. A single mothers is strong. Not because she has to be, but because it comes natural for her to protect the extensions of her very being. Her love for her children is like that of fuel to a car. Most mothers keep their tanks full because they understand if it runs low you could jeopardize the
car and have problems in the long run. Other women only fill it when it is needed.
Have you ever wondered why some women are not approachable? Or have you made up your mind that she is just mean. A quiet woman is a smart woman. She is valuable. She doesn't go off half-cocked and
she won't be the one to argue with you over nothing. She just may even let you go on in your
"setting her straight" and politely back out without a fight. She doesn't let many in her world. After all, she has probably been through the fire and had to rebuild. So why let just anyone in? This is usually the woman that only gives "small talk" and knows her place, which is away from all the unnecessary things in life.
Have you ever wondered why another woman is so loud? Well.....she has a lot to say. These are usually our younger women who are yet to learn how to refrain. They are usually eager and unsettled. They act before they think and they do not think before they talk ; they tend to go with the flow and the moment.
Have you ever wondered about that woman who appears to have everything, yet is still very unhappy? Well, she doesn't have everything. She doesn't have personal validation. This is something that cannot be bought. This is something developed over many mistakes and challenges that have taught lessons of the unbearable.
Women are so quick to beat the next one down instead of trying to hold her up. Before you wonder, "what's up with her?", ask yourself, "what's up with me?"
Life is about who you love and who you hurt.
Life is about who you make happy and unhappy purposely.
Life is about keeping or betraying trust.
Life is about friendship regarded as sacred or used as a weapon.
Life is about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening.
Life is about starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.
Life is about what judgments you pass and why, and who your judgments are spread to.
Life is about who you've ignored with full control and intention.
Life is about jealousy, fear, ignorance, and revenge.
Life is about carrying inner love or hate and letting it grow or spreading it.
But, most of all, Life is about using your life to touch, or poison other people's hearts in such a way that could have never occurred by itself. Only you choose the way those hearts are affected. These choices are what life's about. Choose wisely.
all her glory and imperfection. For many women this is a scary thing because often times they don't want to know the truth about themselves. Real women can relate to this.
As women, we have a tendency to water one another down. Maybe it makes us feel good or look better than the next woman. Or maybe we just don't know how to tell that woman how we admire her. Have you ever admired a woman who has been through changes in her life? Or have you made up in your mind that she is just messed up. Before you make this mistake, take a closer look.
A woman who has endured the most unusual life is someone of wisdom. Someone who has been chosen by God to go through. Think of all the great women in the bible, Mary Magdalene and Esther to name a few. Mary was a prostitute. A very uneasy woman. But by the time God was done with her, she was his closest follower. Esther was unfortunate in marrying an abusive man. By the time God was done with her she married one of the wealthiest men in the land.
Have you ever admired the strength of a single mother? Or have you made up your mind that it's too bad she had children on her own. A single mother knows no bounds when it comes to her children. She is strong and durable. A single mothers is strong. Not because she has to be, but because it comes natural for her to protect the extensions of her very being. Her love for her children is like that of fuel to a car. Most mothers keep their tanks full because they understand if it runs low you could jeopardize the
car and have problems in the long run. Other women only fill it when it is needed.
Have you ever wondered why some women are not approachable? Or have you made up your mind that she is just mean. A quiet woman is a smart woman. She is valuable. She doesn't go off half-cocked and
she won't be the one to argue with you over nothing. She just may even let you go on in your
"setting her straight" and politely back out without a fight. She doesn't let many in her world. After all, she has probably been through the fire and had to rebuild. So why let just anyone in? This is usually the woman that only gives "small talk" and knows her place, which is away from all the unnecessary things in life.
Have you ever wondered why another woman is so loud? Well.....she has a lot to say. These are usually our younger women who are yet to learn how to refrain. They are usually eager and unsettled. They act before they think and they do not think before they talk ; they tend to go with the flow and the moment.
Have you ever wondered about that woman who appears to have everything, yet is still very unhappy? Well, she doesn't have everything. She doesn't have personal validation. This is something that cannot be bought. This is something developed over many mistakes and challenges that have taught lessons of the unbearable.
Women are so quick to beat the next one down instead of trying to hold her up. Before you wonder, "what's up with her?", ask yourself, "what's up with me?"
Life is about who you love and who you hurt.
Life is about who you make happy and unhappy purposely.
Life is about keeping or betraying trust.
Life is about friendship regarded as sacred or used as a weapon.
Life is about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening.
Life is about starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.
Life is about what judgments you pass and why, and who your judgments are spread to.
Life is about who you've ignored with full control and intention.
Life is about jealousy, fear, ignorance, and revenge.
Life is about carrying inner love or hate and letting it grow or spreading it.
But, most of all, Life is about using your life to touch, or poison other people's hearts in such a way that could have never occurred by itself. Only you choose the way those hearts are affected. These choices are what life's about. Choose wisely.
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